A Call for Circumspection, Not Celebration – A Rebuttal to Hon. Ursula Owusu-Ekuful.
“Though the statement was made years ago, it continues to resurface annually on social media and deserves a thoughtful, godly response.”
It is with the utmost respect and concern that I respond to the public statement by former MP. Hon. Ursula Owusu-Ekuful, Member of Parliament and Minister of State, regarding her youthful experimentation with lesbianism during her secondary school days. While the honesty in recalling past experiences may reflect personal transparency, it is deeply troubling that such a disclosure was accompanied by unapologetic approval rather than caution, regret, or moral responsibility—especially given her status as a national leader, mentor, and mother figure to many.
As a public servant, wife, mother, grandmother, and legislator, Hon. Ursula Owusu-Ekuful bears a sacred responsibility—not merely to represent her constituents in parliament—but to set a moral and ethical example for the younger generation. Her words carry weight, and her silence on the dangers of such experimentation sends a powerful yet unfortunate message to many impressionable minds.
To speak of sexual perversion of any kind without acknowledging its moral, emotional, psychological, and spiritual consequences is not an act of bravery but a grave omission. To do so without even a glint of remorse, caution, or counsel, especially in an age of moral confusion – is to unintentionally promote the same unwholesome behaviour under the banner of “exploration.”
In a time when many young girls are already battling sexual addiction, identity confusion, and peer pressure, this testimony, stripped of wisdom, warning, or moral clarity, becomes a stumbling block.
What then should have been said?
The honourable thing would have been to say:
“I regret that phase of my youth, and while it happened, I must caution young people never to experiment with that which violates nature, conscience, and moral truth. It leaves emotional scars, distorts identity, and may hinder future intimacy in marriage. I thank God for His grace in leading me to a better understanding of myself, and I urge you to seek truth, not impulse.”
Instead, the proud statement, “I don’t make any apologies about it, but I like my men,” falls far short of the dignity and wisdom expected from a national figure. Freedom of speech must never be confused with freedom from moral accountability.
1. Moral and Scriptural Clarity
The Apostle Paul gives a timeless standard in Philippians 4:8:
“Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure… think about such things.”
Such experimentation does not meet the test of purity, nobility, or righteousness. Scripture further warns in Romans 1:26–27 of the consequences of unnatural affections that arise from rejecting divine truth. This is not merely a religious position but a moral compass that has guided generations.
2. Cultural Heritage and Identity
African cultures, though diverse, have consistently held to the sacredness of male-female relationships as the foundation of family and societal continuity. The promotion or normalization of same-sex experimentation undermines the values upon which our communities thrive—dignity, responsibility, marriage, and procreation.
3. Psychological and Emotional Consequences
Studies have shown that early exposure to unnatural sexual behaviour, especially in adolescence, can result in confusion, emotional trauma, and relational dysfunction in adulthood. What may begin as “innocent exploration” often leaves behind shame, regret, and fractured identity.
4. Biological and Marital Implications
Female sexuality is delicate, responsive, and deeply psychological. Experimenting with same-sex encounters can interfere with later bonding in marital intimacy, sow seeds of distrust, or open doors to perpetual dissatisfaction and internal conflict in future heterosexual relationships.
5. Leadership Responsibility and Influence
Hon. Ursula, you are more than a politician. You are a mentor, an example, and a matriarch in the public space. Ghanaian girls are listening. What you excuse today, many may adopt tomorrow—not as mistakes of youth—but as a model of freedom without consequences.
We therefore humbly urge you to reconsider your public position. While no one demands perfection, we do seek leadership that is reflective, responsible, and redemptive. Let us not speak of “youthful silliness” as if it were harmless fun, but with the humility of hindsight that warns others away from the same pitfalls.
Our nation is grappling with a moral crisis. Now more than ever, our leaders must not only speak the truth but live and model it with courage, humility, and moral clarity.
May the God of mercy, who redeems all past errors, give us the grace to speak wisely and lead honourably.
Respectfully,
A Concerned Citizen, Minister of the Gospel, and Advocate for Godly Leadership.
Rev. Emmanuel Boachie Country Director of AWSOME BIBLE COLLEGE and Headpastor of SOULS’ PASTURE CHURCH Kumasi Asuofua-ACHIASE off Barekese Road. +233240375959.
